Dating?

How does one go about dating.

I think I know what I’m doing. Hang out. Go out to lunch. Become friends first. Get to know them better. Right? I mean…I’m no expert…but I think that’s the normal process.

But when do those “feelings” develop? Or are those feelings already there when you grab some sushi together? When is that moment you start realizing, “I really like this guy”? Is it when you first meet him and you talk about contemporary art and argue about the never ending question, “what is art”; or when he makes you laugh as he passes you the yellow tail sashimi on your second lunch together.

When does that nervousness show up in your conversation?

And when is the right time to stop if you’re not sure at all?

What if I never really care for any of these dudes…

Why do I still feel unsatisfied and have all these questions…

-ML